{"id":3540,"date":"2020-07-27T12:25:40","date_gmt":"2020-07-27T11:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/?page_id=3540"},"modified":"2022-03-02T14:16:06","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T14:16:06","slug":"claire-mackinnon","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/index.php\/claire-mackinnon\/","title":{"rendered":"Claire Mackinnon"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3540\" class=\"elementor elementor-3540\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-27a5a604 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"27a5a604\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5434a819\" data-id=\"5434a819\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2dc88309 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2dc88309\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">CLAIRE MACKINNON<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-304eb41d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"304eb41d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">LEADING WITH HEART AND SOUL<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-74319842 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"74319842\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I help people whose career is sucking the life out of them. They don\u2019t want to leave their job because financially there\u2019s too much at stake. They care about their organisation and team, have worked hard to get where they are and want to make it work. But find themselves thinking \u2018what\u2019s the point?\u2019\u00a0 The relentless politics, long hours, pointless meetings, never ending emails and having to pretend like they\u2019re on it 100% of the time is exhausting and they\u2019ve had enough.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5affdd7c\" data-id=\"5affdd7c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-85e358 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"85e358\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-16.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU5MCwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS0xNi5qcGcifQ%3D%3D\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-16-819x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-3590\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-16-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-16-240x300.jpg 240w, 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data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b98fcd9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"2b98fcd9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-14.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU4NSwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS0xNC5qcGcifQ%3D%3D\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-14.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3585\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-14.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-14-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-14-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-14-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-14-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ce4eb12 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"7ce4eb12\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2c2c3c73 elementor-invisible\" data-id=\"2c2c3c73\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6299e2c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6299e2c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">my programmes liberate you to have the work and life you long for<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-464e9daf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"464e9daf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>My one-to-one coaching programmes guide you to reclaim the joy in your life and get on in your career without selling your soul.\u00a0 We create clarity on what you really want and dig into what holds you back. Through a blend of coaching and mentoring, my programmes liberate you to have the work and life you long for.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3cc1a03a elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3cc1a03a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1d1126e3\" data-id=\"1d1126e3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4bb7986 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"4bb7986\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5f7be069\" data-id=\"5f7be069\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-53da6171 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"53da6171\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I was a classic people pleaser from a young age. I learnt that keeping my head down and not making a fuss was the best way to get on. I was a straight \u2018A\u2019 student. The only thing I failed was my driving test and I never got a detention at school.<\/p><p>When I was a teenager my schedule was packed \u2013 learning the piano, violin and flute, dancing, playing in orchestras, bands, singing in choirs and during the school holidays I\u2019d be on tour with my county\u2019s Youth Orchestra. I lived for those trips \u2013 I loved performing on the stage, and the parties afterwards.\u00a0<\/p><p>I decided to study music at University. I loved the freedom of living away from home and made up for lost time with my social life. It was like being on tour every day \u2013 immersed in a subject I loved and partying with people who got me.<\/p><p>One day my bubble burst when the girls I had planned to live with told me they\u2019d changed their minds. My partying would mess up their studies. I was floored and confused. I\u2019d never felt more like myself, and these people were telling me they didn\u2019t like it. I didn\u2019t stop partying but I enjoyed it a little bit less after that.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-59886971 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"59886971\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_effect&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_speed&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:5,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_direction&quot;:&quot;out-in&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_range&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;%&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;start&quot;:20,&quot;end&quot;:80}},&quot;background_motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1213f896\" data-id=\"1213f896\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6a3380c0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6a3380c0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-4.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU1MSwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS00LmpwZyJ9\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-4.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3551\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-4.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-4-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-4-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-4-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-76d9bd2f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"76d9bd2f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6c192dff\" data-id=\"6c192dff\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7753575 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7753575\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I studied with some of the greatest living composers whilst at Birmingham, and discovered my talent for writing music. The notes seemed to fall out of me and I loved creating something from nothing. As I honed my skill, I dreamt of becoming a film composer, but as I reached my final year, I chickened out, convinced I\u2019d become a struggling artist.\u00a0I decided to join a Banking Graduate scheme instead, to experience the \u2018 real world.\u2019 From the minute I walked into the assessment centre I felt like I didn\u2019t belong, but I went with it, \u2018performed\u2019 and got the job.<\/p><p>6 months after I graduated I returned to Birmingham to attend the world premiere of a piece of music I\u2019d written in my final year. I had won the university composition prize, which was to have my work played by a professional orchestra in a public concert alongside the works of established composers.<\/p><p>As the conductor invited me to the stage to take a bow it felt as though I was saying a final goodbye to the creative life I had dreamed of. After that it felt pointless to play and write music, so I stopped.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><p>In my new life in the corporate world, I quickly got to grips with what was needed to be a straight A student. I was convinced that at any moment, someone would realise they had made a mistake and offered the wrong Claire the job. So I worked my backside off, and kept getting promoted.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-61600c5 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"61600c5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_effect&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_speed&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:5,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_direction&quot;:&quot;out-in&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_range&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;%&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;start&quot;:20,&quot;end&quot;:80}},&quot;background_motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bc46178\" data-id=\"bc46178\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e758b8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1e758b8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-5.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU1MywidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS01LmpwZyJ9\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-5.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3553\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-5.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-5-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-5-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c5a6fbb elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c5a6fbb\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-aadbae1\" data-id=\"aadbae1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0d74e2c elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0d74e2c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I listened intently to my mentors and managers and put into practice everything they taught me. I decided to specialise in HR. Parts of my work came very naturally to me and I loved them. But these moments were fleeting. What dominated was a nagging thought: \u2018why are we doing this?\u2019 What is the ACTUAL point? It felt like we were all on this giant treadmill, and I couldn\u2019t see what difference it was making in real terms, beyond shareholders getting richer and customers having their money taken care of.<\/p><p>Neither of these things made me excited. I kept going and resigned myself to the fact that this was just how work in the real world\u00a0 felt. It was paying the bills and then some, and I told myself I should feel grateful for that.<\/p><p>I\u2019d met my boyfriend, Ross, a fellow graduate, when I\u2019d started at Barclays and by the age of 26 we were married. By 29 I\u2019d given birth to our daughter, Holly and two years later our Son, James. On paper I had everything I thought I wanted, but there was a growing feeling of unease that I didn\u2019t understand or want to understand. So I carried on regardless.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1265429c elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1265429c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6374312a\" data-id=\"6374312a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-58cc1686 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"58cc1686\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-22048_longestedge-5-1.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU1NiwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIyMDQ4X2xvbmdlc3RlZGdlLTUtMS5qcGcifQ%3D%3D\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1365\" height=\"2048\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-22048_longestedge-5-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3556\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-22048_longestedge-5-1.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-22048_longestedge-5-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-22048_longestedge-5-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-22048_longestedge-5-1-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-22048_longestedge-5-1-1024x1536.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1365px) 100vw, 1365px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5f4a064f\" data-id=\"5f4a064f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-230d2e4c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"230d2e4c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The people in my life celebrated. But I felt numb and sad. Sad that I had to get back on the treadmill <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5bc4f857 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5bc4f857\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-78bf0113\" data-id=\"78bf0113\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63462ddd elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"63462ddd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>One Tuesday in 2011 my body started to bleed. Violently and suddenly. I was rushed to hospital and after various tests found out I had several early-stage tumours in my bowel and that I needed surgery. The two months that followed were a blur, as I prepared for my operation and contemplated the possibility of serious illness or worse.<\/p><p>After an agonising wait I was given the news that all was well. I didn\u2019t need any more treatment, just close monitoring. The people in my life celebrated. But I felt numb and sad. Sad that I had to get back on the treadmill and carry on living a life that felt joyless despite having everything I thought I wanted. And I was so ashamed of how I felt. So I put on a brave face, went back to work after my maternity leave ended, and carried on.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2940527f elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2940527f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_effect&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_speed&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:5,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_direction&quot;:&quot;out-in&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_range&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;%&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;start&quot;:20,&quot;end&quot;:80}},&quot;background_motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5d25a867\" data-id=\"5d25a867\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a820121 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"5a820121\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-3.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU0OSwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS0zLmpwZyJ9\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-3-683x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-3549\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-3-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-3-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-3.jpg 1365w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e05bbd8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e05bbd8\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-17e395c0\" data-id=\"17e395c0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5492359b elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5492359b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The next year was the worst of my life. Ross and I decided to separate and worked with a counsellor to try and save our relationship. At the same time, my company was going through a merger. As HR Director I was leading a huge part of the work and I felt like I was on a year-long interview. The stakes were high, and I had to prove myself and keep my job when the restructures came. Ross and I tried to make our marriage work and he moved back in a couple of times. I always quickly returned to feeling numb and uneasy but convinced myself it would get better.<\/p><p>I found being apart from the children on the couple of nights Ross had them each week very hard. I would watch mindless TV, cry and drink a bottle of wine until I fell asleep. One day I saw a post on Facebook about a dance class I had always thought of trying, and something told me to get off the sofa and go. It was a Salsa class and it was incredible. Like nothing else I had ever experienced. Afterwards when I got home, I was buzzing and didn\u2019t get to sleep for hours. Through that incredibly difficult year, I kept dancing a couple of times a month. When things felt dark, I knew I had this magical thing in my life that topped me up and it kept me going.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><p>One morning, when Ross had moved back in, he was in the shower and I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror as I got out of bed. I was about a stone underweight and looked so sad and desperate. I didn\u2019t recognise myself. And then I had a moment of complete clarity. I knew exactly what I needed to do. All the fear I had been carrying fell away, and I was finally honest with myself. When Ross walked back in the room, I told him that I knew deep down our marriage was over and that I couldn\u2019t carry on this way. I felt a sense of calm I had never felt before. We both felt sad, but we were also relieved. This was the right decision for the whole family.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8e54cf4 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8e54cf4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-097054e\" data-id=\"097054e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f8ee5cf elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"f8ee5cf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-8.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU3MiwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS04LmpwZyJ9\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-8.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3572\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-8.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-8-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-8-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-8-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-8-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4917849\" data-id=\"4917849\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d769b31 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"d769b31\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-11.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU3NywidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS0xMS5qcGcifQ%3D%3D\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-11-1024x683.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-3577\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-11-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-11-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-11-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-11-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-11.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a4c110e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a4c110e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cb9a680\" data-id=\"cb9a680\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b4dc1bb elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b4dc1bb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>What I know now is that until that moment, most decisions in my life, big and small, had been driven by a fear of something: being rejected, being disapproved of, being alone, failing. In that moment of clarity, my fear took a back seat. It was still there, but it quietened, and I listened to a different part of myself. That part told me my kids being happy and secure did not require me to be a martyr. It told me that everything was going to work out and that I had people around me who loved me. This was the start of me demoting my fear from running the show, and everything started to change.<\/p><p>At work, I had conversations with tricky stakeholders I had been shying away from and it felt easy. Instead of running around trying to prove myself, I took a step back and focused on what was most important. By doing less, and being more courageous, the results I created with my team skyrocketed.\u00a0 I realised that keeping my job didn\u2019t depend on me working 12-hours every day. I realised my own worth to the organisation and when the restructure came I breezed through the interviews without breaking a sweat. I was amazed.<\/p><p>When I spent time at home I often felt waves of grief and felt lonely. But I also felt so much calmer and present with Holly and James. They were only little, 3 and 6, and I started to enjoy my time with them in a way I hadn\u2019t before. I realised that feeling sad about my marriage ending didn\u2019t mean it was the wrong decision. I learnt not to feel afraid of my feelings and as I let myself feel sad the difficult emotions slowly evaporated, and I felt more and more content.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-63bc07f elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"63bc07f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_effect&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_speed&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:5,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_direction&quot;:&quot;out-in&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_range&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;%&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;start&quot;:20,&quot;end&quot;:80}},&quot;background_motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;],&quot;motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b83eff1\" data-id=\"b83eff1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c48648 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"9c48648\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-7.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU3MCwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS03LmpwZyJ9\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-7.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3570\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-7.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-7-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-7-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-7-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-0e9f1e7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0e9f1e7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f03fc6c\" data-id=\"f03fc6c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-632c3b3 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"632c3b3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I danced every week and one day decided to try a new class. There, in the beginner\u2019s section, I met a wonderful man, Mark, who would later become my husband and Stepdad to Holly and James. We met up each week to go dancing, and I soon realised this was the person I would share my life with.<\/p><p>As my confidence grew I decided to follow my heart and start my own business. I had no grand plan, but I knew I had a lot to offer and I wanted more flexibility, variety and meaning. I\u00a0 resigned from my job, set up my own HR consultancy and walked into a full schedule of rewarding projects with people I loved working with from day 1 of my new venture. I had no strategy, I simply connected with people I had enjoyed working with in my past career and opportunities kept presenting themselves. The chance to deliver some coaching and training came up, and I realised this was the work I was meant to do.\u00a0 As I immersed myself in my professional coach training I never looked back. I stopped taking on HR projects and moved 100% to coaching and developing leaders in organisations. It felt scary to leave behind the career I had built over 15 years, but it also felt 100% right.<\/p><p>One of the things that blew my mind about my coaching work was the power of looking beyond our logical mind for the answer. Finally, the weird and wonderful mix of my life experiences made sense.\u00a0 My creativity, heart, mind and body all had a part to play in my vocation as coach and I could use them to serve other people and make the difference I had been longing to. I discovered my talent for helping people tap into themselves in a deeper way, using my own creativity, and how transformational this was.<\/p><p>My journey has taught me so much. I have learned that working until I bleed is not the answer. I have learned to accept myself more and more, and to stop trying to please other people all the time.\u00a0 I have learned to listen to myself more and make changes that feel life-affirming even when they scare me. I have discovered the power of my intuition, putting my joy first and trusting that the next step will always be revealed. I also know that I never wanted to stop dancing. Ever.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-246aecbe elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"246aecbe\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_effect&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_speed&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:5,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_direction&quot;:&quot;out-in&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_range&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;%&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;start&quot;:20,&quot;end&quot;:80}},&quot;background_motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;],&quot;motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-69da3f9a\" data-id=\"69da3f9a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-78e4fa28 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"78e4fa28\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-15.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU4OCwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS0xNS5qcGcifQ%3D%3D\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-15.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3588\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-15.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-15-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-15-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-15-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-15-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-86e665e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"86e665e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0b699ea\" data-id=\"0b699ea\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e3fadd elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3e3fadd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The judgemental internal voice of fear is what had been running me for most of my life and most of my clients are very aware of theirs when we start working together. What they don\u2019t know about is the vast array of other voices and energies inside us which can play a very different role if we let them. Internal \u2018allies\u2019 that are wise, compassionate, fun, sassy, adventurous and courageous. When we decide to recruit these as our \u2018inner leadership team\u2019 everything changes.<\/p><p>I love teaching people about this, and supporting them to actively recruit, nurture and integrate a new life-affirming \u2018inner team\u2019 into how they live and lead. I support people to demote the \u2018fear-led CEO,\u2019 reassign them as a consultant to call in when needed, and have their new team run the show. Often these life-affirming parts of us haven\u2019t had much airtime and are shy about stepping forward. So this isn\u2019t something to think your way into. It is something to be experienced and cultivated. I have a knack for quickly sensing and inviting these parts of people to take the stage, and once they do, my clients become unstoppable.<\/p><p>What I believe is that we don\u2019t create real, lasting results by fiddling around with the external circumstances. It\u2019s the internal shifts like recruiting a new \u2018inside team\u2019, and taking action driven by that, which causes transformation in how life feels and the results we create. That\u2019s why new year\u2019s resolutions are famous for hardly ever working. The will-power of your fear-based CEO will win, unless you do the work to demote him and get the other parts of you playing their part. I often receive emails from people telling me about the amazing things that continue to happen in their lives and careers, long after our work together has finished. Nothing is more rewarding to me than reading those words.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3fe5e8a4 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3fe5e8a4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_effect&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_speed&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:5,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_direction&quot;:&quot;out-in&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_range&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;%&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;start&quot;:20,&quot;end&quot;:80}},&quot;background_motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;],&quot;motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-111a115\" data-id=\"111a115\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ad244ad elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"ad244ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-12.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU4MCwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS0xMi5qcGcifQ%3D%3D\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-12.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3580\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-12.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-12-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-12-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-12-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-12-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-67d9875f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"67d9875f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-16290a79\" data-id=\"16290a79\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2095632a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2095632a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>My object is a mini Golden Gate Bridge keyring. In 2017 as I continued to explore different kinds of dance, I followed the strongest intuitive pull I have ever felt, flew to San Francisco and after 3 days of preparation performed my first burlesque solo on the stage in a professionally produced show. I carry this keyring with me wherever I go, and it reminds me of what is possible.<\/p><p>It represents me reclaiming my creativity and my love of performing on a stage after so long away from it. It reminds me to keep stumbling towards my dreams and enjoying it all.\u00a0<\/p><p>My Burlesque stage name is Aphrodite Jones. She is also my inner CEO.\u00a0 Aphrodite is sassy and grounded. She doesn\u2019t strive or grasp for things. She is like a magnet to people because of who she is not what she has accomplished. She\u2019s a Goddess and an imperfect human. She owns who she is, she flirts with the rules and she trusts herself and life. That is who I choose to run the show and this object reminds me of that every day.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3cef805 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3cef805\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_effect&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_speed&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:5,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_direction&quot;:&quot;out-in&quot;,&quot;background_motion_fx_scale_range&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;%&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;start&quot;:20,&quot;end&quot;:80}},&quot;background_motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;],&quot;motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9b7a386\" data-id=\"9b7a386\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e1f057 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1e1f057\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-13.jpg\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"yes\" data-e-action-hash=\"#elementor-action%3Aaction%3Dlightbox%26settings%3DeyJpZCI6MzU4MiwidXJsIjoiaHR0cHM6XC9cL2x1bWlub3VzbGl2ZXMuY29tXC93cC1jb250ZW50XC91cGxvYWRzXC8yMDIwXC8wN1wvUGhpbEFza2V3LTIwNDhfbG9uZ2VzdGVkZ2UtODMtY29weS0xMy5qcGcifQ%3D%3D\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" src=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-13.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3582\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-13.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-13-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-13-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-13-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/luminouslives.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/PhilAskew-2048_longestedge-83-copy-13-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ed121f0 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ed121f0\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-16e6a28\" data-id=\"16e6a28\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2208fcb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2208fcb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>You have wisdom and resources inside of you that you may not dare to believe are there. But they are. When you hear a whisper inside you that makes no earthly sense whatsoever, listen. It is your inner CEO. She is there, waiting to take the stage. If you let her, she may take you somewhere you never dreamed of.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2965cb3\" data-id=\"2965cb3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-36204f3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"36204f3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.3px;\">Connect with Claire in the following ways:<br \/>Website:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.clairemackinnon.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">clairemackinnon.com<\/a><br \/><\/span>Linkedin: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/clairemackinnon\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Claire Mackinnon<\/a><br \/>Email:\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:claire@clairemackinnon.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">claire@clairemackinnon.com<\/a><br \/>Instagram:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/aphroditejonesburlesque\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@aphroditejonesburlesque<\/a><\/p><p><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.2px;\">Instagram: <\/span><a style=\"letter-spacing: 0.2px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/clairemackinnonwrites\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@clairemackinnonwrites<\/a><\/p><p>Facebook:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/claire.mackinnon.56\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Claire.mackinnon<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8d46c17 elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8d46c17\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;gradient&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d88aa26 elementor-invisible\" data-id=\"d88aa26\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-89138c7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"89138c7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">READY TO CREATE YOUR OWN STORY PORTRAIT?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f8519c7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f8519c7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">If this has inspired you, it&#8217;s likely that&nbsp;<\/span><em><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">your<\/span><\/em><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">&nbsp;tribe will be inspired by your story and feel compelled to reach out and connect. Let&#8217;s start your Story Portrait journey today, and put you on the map as an Entrepreneur. Click this button to schedule a call with me now.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f62960c elementor-align-left elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"f62960c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/luminouslives.as.me\/storyportrait\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Book a Free Story Portrait Call<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CLAIRE MACKINNON LEADING WITH HEART AND SOUL I help people whose career is sucking the life out of them. They don\u2019t want to leave their job because financially there\u2019s too much at stake. They care about their organisation and team, have worked hard to get where they are and want to make it work. 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